Thursday, March 17, 2016

Lonesome Post.

I shall declare this as the lonesome post. Because, it's time for some lonesome.

My Self Summary
Just an ordinary young lady, living the ordinary life, in the meantime doing her best to make her life extraordinary. Simple attributes, with open-minded mindset, not the typical Chinese ought to be, humble, considerate, passionate and loving characters. You may find me compulsive, stubborn and in a negative state of mind sometimes but I presume everyone has its own good and bad.

Outdoorsy, but could do indoors too. Need to pump up the life with activities and events to keep myself occupied from negativity, which is the purpose of social networking. Distractions shuckballs, socializing is the key. I am a very straightforward person. I could say anything right into your fce. Honesty is the most important thing in a friendship. What's important is TO BE YOURSELF, the positive one, which I currently am.


What I'm Doing With My Life.
I would like to continue learning and experience different of everything. And I WOULD LOVE TO TRAVEL ALL OVER THE WORLD, to search for myself as I still have a long way ahead.


I'm Really Good At
Well, not really good but in the midst of learning which I think I have not complete learning, because what I have absorbed and adapted right now isn't enough. I crave for more.
Hereby present my INTEREST.

Trekking.
Hiking, Mountain Climbing.
Biking.
Swimming.
Talking.
Mixing.
Photographing.
Planning
Managing.
Traveling.
Laughing.
Eating.
Walking.
Penny Boarding.
Reading.
Thinking.
Understanding.
Caring.
Sometimes shout when I'm excited.
Very, very, and I mean very, Straightforward, direct.
Honesty.

So far this is what I have in me. 


Favorite Books, Movies, Shows, Music, & Food.
First of all, I am not gonna specify all but I'mma narrow it down.

Books - All depends on the genre as well as the author. I do less of history and literature, biography, magazines, but sometimes that's where the authenticity comes from, or ideas, concepts, viewpoints, reviews. Content plays an essential role too.

Movie - I need YouTube for trailers, IMDB and sometimes Wikipedia for castings, plots, and ratings. Rotten Tomato for reviews and other websites that showcase interviews and premieres, to determine my interest for each movie. I could do everything, why? Because if you don't, how would you know the outcome right? RIGHT.

Shows - Arrow, The Flash, Marvel's Agents of SHIELD, DC's Legends of Tomorrow, Girls, Lucifer, The Night Manager, BBC's Sherlock, Agent Carter, Hannibal, The X-Files, Elementary, Luther, Quantico, Gotham, Suits, Constantine, The Fall, and etc. Anime too, too many to list out. 

Music - As long as they're catchy and meaningful lyrics. When I hear, I Shazam, I know, I decide, I download and I transfer.

Food - Dare to explore more of what I've tasted with my taste buds - Western, English, Italian, Mediterranean, Indonesian, Malaysian, Chinese, Mexican, except, Philipino food. All kinds, err-kinds.


I spend a lot of time thinking about
What will happen next?
Life.
People - Individials & Groups.
Contingencies.
Friendship.
Experiences.
Somewhat over-thinker.
My upcoming cravings.
My routines.
My happenings.
My becoming (Postive or Negative)
My attitude.
Treatment from others (friends, family, relatives, acquaintances).
Opinions and point of views.

Many of the WHYs.
Many of the WHAT IFs.
Many of the HOWs.
Many of the WHATs.

Observe a lot.
Ponder a lot.
Hence, I'm a good observer and thinker.

On a typical Friday night, I am
Loving, keen to have a deep conversation with my buddies, partners or someone that I truly close to and fully trust with.
Movies-TV series marathon, alone or with someone, or a group of individuals.
Wrapped up in burrito and meals in bed.

How To Take Control Of Any Conversation

An article extract from Huffington Post, written and posted by Ashley Hamilton, published on the Huffington Post website on March 16th, 2016, 11.14AM.

Posting it here as a reminder to myself, that I need to have the power lead in every conversation. Setting this up as a motivation to me too, which I am encouraged to constantly remind myself positively to start up my day. Hence, this publication posting.

"Your opening line makes all the difference."

The next time you walk into an important meeting, think carefully about your first few words. According to positive psychology researcher and ayuthor Michelle Gielan, the initial words we speak have a huge impact on ho well -- or not so well -- the conversation will go.

To set the right tone from the start, Gielan, a former national news broadcaster; says to use what she calls the power lead. "The power lead is where we start off conversations, emails, meetings, phone calls with something positive and meaningful," Gielan says in the above #OWNSHOW video. "It doesn't have to be something big."

For example, if someone asks how she's doing, makes sure to take this mundane question and craft a strong response. "I'm great! I had breakfast with my son this morning and he was being so cute," she says.

It may sound simple, but Gielan says a positive comment will yield much better results than a ho-hum response. "It offers them a window into our world, and -- this is the most important reason -- it encourages people to reciprocate," she says. "We match the mood. If someone comes at you with something positive, usually you'll follow through with something positive as well."

By using the power lead, Gielan says you can take control of the conversation and even change its trajectory.
" As a researcher; if I know the first few words of a conversation, I can predict with a high degree of accuracy the outcome of that conversation," she says.

Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Am I Wrong? AM I?

Am I wrong to assume on things that didn't happen?
Am I wrong to think what others thought about me?
Am I wrong to answer you without thinking nor hesitation?
Am I wrong to not talk to you?
Am I wrong to showcase my sulky face?
Am I wrong to showcase my tiredness to the people out there?
Am I wrong not to hide my smile?
Am I wrong to assume opinions?
Am I wrong to behave unexpectedly upon you?
Am I wrong to keep silent?
Am I wrong to forget about you?
Am I wrong to bother about you?
Am I wrong to think that I've left out from a group?
Am I wrong to think that I'm no invited?
Am I wrong to be too nice to people?
Am I wrong to be mad at people?
Am I wrong to not message you first?
Am I wrong to not search for you?
Am I wrong to not look out for you?
Am I wrong to support you?
Am I wrong to talk back to you?
Am I wrong to care for you?
Am I wrong to considerate for you?
Am I wrong to introduce you to the others?
Am I wrong to lend a hand to those in need?
Am I wrong to get betrayed?
Am I wrong to get acknowledged?
Am I wrong to get underestimated?
Am I wrong to ignore you?
Am I wrong to cancel you out from my life?
Am I wrong to experience all these bullshit?
Am I wrong to deal with life in different ways?
Am I wrong to face life with bravery?
Am I wrong to fulfill my life with experiences?
Am I wrong to fill up my routines with adventurous trips?
Am I wrong to travel around the world?
Am I wrong to find my inner peace?
Am I wrong to laugh at myself?
Am I wrong to be selfish?
Am I wrong to be ignorance?
Am I wrong to be open-minded?
Am I wrong to ponder upon life?
Am I wrong to concern for the people?
Am I wrong for being just?
Am I wrong for being competitive?
Am I wrong to be knowledgeable?
Am I wrong to be selective?
Am I wrong to be surrounded with nerds?
Am I wrong to be clever?
Am I wrong to mix with cool kids?
Am I wrong to be snobbish?
Am I wrong to be honest?
Am I wrong to be humorous?
Am I wrong to laugh at everything?
Am I wrong to shout?
Am I wrong to scream my lungs out?
Am I wrong to run away from problems?
Am I wrong to face my fear?
Am I wrong to escape the negatives?
Am I wrong to support and adapt the disadvantages?
Am I wrong to be alone?
Am I wrong to be lonesome?
Am I wrong to judge?
Am I wrong to opt for negative feedback or judgment?
Am I wrong to accept the positive feedback or judgment?
Am I wrong to not think about others' judgment about me?
Am I wrong to pretend everything is okay?
Am I wrong to overthink?
Am I wrong to be childish?
Am I wrong to be mature?
Am I wrong to be a human being?
Am I wrong to regret to not be an animal?
Am I wrong to love myself?
Am I wrong to hate myself?
Am I wrong to love life?
Am I wrong to hate life?
Am I wrong to fulfill my life to the fullest?
Am I wrong to empty my life to the emptiest?

Tell me, AM I?

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